i really think you need to have a sit down with your wife - she needs to be more supportive. I'm been on chantix for about 3 weeks now (don't even keep the day count any more) and it has worked wonders. Great start, but you need more support.
Thanks, I agree. She needs to quit. Every slip up was due top the fact that i had access to cigarettes through her. I am not blaming her, but it's absolutely impossible to resist it when the closes person to you is doing it infront you. Thanks for your comment by the way. She got the patch and she is gonna try to quit. I hear once one spouse quits, its a whole lot easier for the other to follow.